问：怎样控制自己不发脾气？

Q: how to control your temper?

答：如果你是对的，你没必要发脾气；如果你是错的，你没资格发脾气。

A: if you are right, you don't have to lose your temper; If you are wrong, you have no right to lose your temper.

发脾气是人的本能，但不代表我们可以乱发脾气。

Losing our temper is a human instinct, but it doesn't mean we can lose our temper.

若你有理，以理服人才是武器；若你没理，低头服软才是良策。

If you are reasonable, convincing people with reason is a weapon; If you don't pay attention, it's a good idea to bow your head and be soft.

乱发脾气，只会显得自己没教养、没底气。

If you lose your temper, you will only appear to be ill bred and have no confidence.

更何况，发脾气解决不了任何问题，只会伤人伤己。

What's more, losing your temper can't solve any problems, it will only hurt others and yourself.

一个真正有本事的人，即便很生气，也会顾全大局，保持自己该有的风度。

A truly capable person, even if he is very angry, will take the overall situation into account and maintain his demeanor.

如果没有收拾残局的能力，就别放纵自己善变的情绪。

If you don't have the ability to clean up the mess, don't indulge your fickle mood.

请记得：脾气永远不要大于本事。

Please remember: temper should never be greater than ability.

控制好脾气，才能控制好人生。

Only by controlling your temper can you control your life.