值得我们思考的原始本性（私心、水泡）
It is worth our consideration of the original nature ( selfishness, blisters)
鱼缸里的鱼死了，水还留在那里。晚间散步的时候，女儿很神秘的说，她刚才看见鱼缸底部无端的出现了一个水泡。像一个精灵，他觉得很怪，亦很有意思。水泡从无到有，慢慢变大，然后就开始从水底慢悠悠的上升，逾接近水面逾大，最后浮到了水面，又破碎了。鱼缸里的水至清，本来什么也没有。她问那是不是那只死金鱼的魂魄。
The fish in the fish died, water also stay there. Evening walk, daughter is very mysterious, she just saw the bottom of the tank for the emergence of a blister. Like a wizard, he felt very strange, very interesting. Blisters from scratch, and slowly become larger, and started from the bottom to slowly rise, more than near the surface over large floating to the surface of the water, at last, and broken. The fish in the water is clear, have nothing. She asked that the dead goldfish. Is it right?.
    女儿的话使我陷入了沉思。转而默思起另外一个近似“水泡”的问题。我觉得私心就是掩藏在我们身体里面的水泡。平时看不到，摸不着，连我们自己也意识不到它的存在。可是在特定的条件下，它就会冒出来。象鬼魅一样的冒出来，使你觉得不可思议，感到惊讶。女儿当然不会沉思联系到其他。说完了就忘了。就蹦跳着弃下我，向前面跑去。
Her words set me thinking. To meditate on another approximation" blisters" problem. I think that self is hidden in our bodies inside blister. I can not see, touch, even we are unaware of its existence. But under certain conditions, it will pop out. Like ghosts like emerge, make you feel incredible, surprised. Daughter of meditative, links to other. He forgot it. He bounced up to run to me, in front of.
    看着她的背影，我想起我的一个朋友。她的反省与自责。
Looking at her back, I remember one of my friend. Her reflection and remorse.
    我的朋友有一儿一女。儿子是丈夫与其前妻所生。但她待他像对待亲生女儿一样，不存一点私心。大家称她“为人母则心境明澈，为人妻则晶莹剔透”。她也自信可当此赞誉。可是一次意外使她的自信受到了极大的挫伤。她说有天傍晚她带着儿子和女儿一起散步。小孩子活蹦乱跳，一会儿他们就跑前面去了。路上凑巧碰见久不谋面的同学，聊了起来，一时竟忘了看护的责任。突然，她听见前面人声喧哗。只见人流不断聚拢，围做一团，她的心不禁一紧，发生了车祸？她猛地想起了女儿。继而又记起了儿子。……幸好都不是。是撞车。没有伤亡。她于是吁了口气。找到两个孩子，转回家去。可是回到家里，她辗转反侧，不能入睡。她为一深层次的问题所困绕。她想，为什么我当时首先想到的是自己的亲生女儿，其次才是前任的儿子？又想，假如真的发生意外，我首先想救起的岂不也是自己的女儿？她说她越想越感到陌生和害怕。也许正因为平时她连一点“自私”的意识都没有，所以发生了这样的事才使她特别感到突然、不能接受，而倍感痛苦。
My friend has a son and a daughter. His son is the husband and wife born. But she treats him like his own daughter, do not save a little selfish. Everybody called her" mother is clear for mood, Renqi is crystal clear". She also confident when this praise. But an accident made her confidence has been greatly dampened. She said one day in the evening with her son and daughter walking together. A child alive and kicking, while they ran ahead. The road I met for a long time met classmates, chat up, temporarily forget the responsibility of nursing. Suddenly, she heard voices loud in front of. I saw people constantly gather around, do a mission, her heart with a tight, an accident? She suddenly remembered the daughter. Then he remembered his son. ... ... Fortunately, all is not. Was the crash. No casualties. She sighed. Found two children, to go home. But back home, she toss and turn restlessly, unable to fall asleep. She is a deep-seated plagued. She thought, why I was first thought to be his own daughter, followed by the former 's son? Think again, if it happened, I wanted to first rescued and do your own daughter? She said she grew more and more strange and fearful. Perhaps it is because she is a" selfish " consciousness are not, so that's what happened to make her feel suddenly, unacceptable, and feel the pain.
    其实这也是人的一种本能，换做谁谁都会这样。当然，这种本能是自私的，但这种自私是大家所能够接受的，是人之长情，是天性，是谁也不会横加指责的。于情理之中，我们会加以宽容。
In fact, this is a human instinct, for who are. Of course, this kind of instinct is selfish, but kind of selfish it is acceptable, is all too human, nature, who is also not to blame. On the reason, we will be tolerant.
    至于自私之人在理智能够支配的情况下鼓胀起来的损人利己的“私心”那又另当别论了，不在本话题之列。
The selfish man intellectually able to dictate the circumstances of the bulging harm others to benefit oneself" selfish" that's a different story, not in this topic list.