怎样能够有领导那种沉稳气质

How to have the calm temperament of a leader

①学会不和别人解释原因，也不要问别人原因，因为话越少，越有威严，能量就越强。

① Learn not to explain the reasons to others, nor to ask them, because the less words spoken, the more majestic, and the stronger the energy.

②藏好自己的底盘，被人看穿一切，就没人会尊敬你。

② Hide your own chassis, be seen through everything, and no one will respect you.

③有实力的人才会被人尊敬。

③ A person with strength will be respected.

④不要和朋友，亲属扯上利益关系，如果你这样做了，就是将这段感情放在火上烤。

④ Don't get involved in interests with friends or relatives. If you do this, you are setting the relationship on fire.

⑤有距离，才有神秘感，和一个人关系熟了，就能发现对方的弱点，从而觉得没什么了不起。

⑤ Only with distance can one have a sense of mystery. Once one becomes familiar with a person, one can discover their weaknesses and feel that they are not significant.

⑥人都有七情六欲，在职场中，尽量不要暴露自己的需求感，不要随便给人可乘之机

⑥ Everyone has seven emotions and six desires. In the workplace, try not to expose your sense of need and do not give people opportunities to take advantage of it

⑦独来独往的人，不是性格孤僻，而是觉得自己无需讨好任何人。

⑦ People who come and go alone do not have a solitary personality, but feel that they do not need to please anyone.

⑧不去追求公平，追求公平公正的人，说明规则不是你来掌握的。

⑧ Those who do not pursue fairness, but pursue fairness and justice, indicate that the rules are not yours to master.